Taboo
I was left wondering what is so taboo about sharing your life after I stopped laughing at the silly bickering left in the comments.
Why is it not okay to share? I know some will say you need to keep your problems to yourself, it's not our business. I must disagree.
Here's why. Not sharing is how critical mass was reached in my marriage. Now I am not looking for a meddling mother in law. But when people keep their worries and joys to themselves they ultimately suffer and do does the community at large.
See there is someone out there that is going to read these blog post and see their own marriage. They might recognize that they need to seek help before they need assistance from the police or find themselves in divorce court. Even more important a friend or family member may realize that your family needs help ending a dysfunctional cycle and help intervene.
So why don't I share good things? Oh I do, it's just right now the amount of bad things are more plentiful.
I was left wondering what is so taboo about sharing your life after I stopped laughing at the silly bickering left in the comments.
Why is it not okay to share? I know some will say you need to keep your problems to yourself, it's not our business. I must disagree.
Here's why. Not sharing is how critical mass was reached in my marriage. Now I am not looking for a meddling mother in law. But when people keep their worries and joys to themselves they ultimately suffer and do does the community at large.
See there is someone out there that is going to read these blog post and see their own marriage. They might recognize that they need to seek help before they need assistance from the police or find themselves in divorce court. Even more important a friend or family member may realize that your family needs help ending a dysfunctional cycle and help intervene.
So why don't I share good things? Oh I do, it's just right now the amount of bad things are more plentiful.
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